Why you should forgive? (2mins read)

“Forgiveness is not an occasional act, it is a constant act.”

– Martin Luther King Jr.

All through life people will hurt and betray you. Let the Universe deal with them. To be wounded is trivial, unless you persist on nursing its memory forever. Forgive them not just because they need it, but because you need it.

Inner forgiveness is also vital. I realized that the one person I needed to ask for forgiveness from the most is ‘Myself‘. Every time you recall a weakness, mistake or a flaw within you, tell yourself “It’s OK.” We are all creatures of God collectively on a continuous path of Evolution. Learn to absolve yourself daily so that you no longer perceive those shortcomings. Our thoughts matter, and profoundly impacts the world around us.

Can you envisage a world filled with people willing both to forgive and ready to accept an apology graciously? The largesse of human spirit, humility and love could resolve any problem plaguing the world. Forgiveness would be our generation’s greatest contribution to healing an angry and damaged world.

Every time you forgive others and yourself, the Universe changes! Every time you reach out and heal a heart with love, the Cosmos transforms! Every act of loving kindness, mercy, compassion and service alters the energy of the planet. And in this process of Loving and Forgiving, nothing will ever be the same again.

Love! Do what makes you feel good!


Secret revealed!


Just observe your breathe because breathe is the string which has tied us with our ultimate creation within us. Keep watching your breathe in each and every moment. Just observe how your breath is functioning in different moments and situations in your day to day life. Just observe How it’s working when you are in anger? 

How’s it’s working when you are in intimacy?  

How it’s working when you are love?

How it’s working when you are in sleep?

How it’s working when you are meditating?

How it’s working when you are eating?

How it’s working when you are walking, running or doing any physical activity?

You will notice that your life is just ticking away without asking your permission. Its not waiting for us at all. Slowly you will understand that all this life we have been wasting our life energies in striving false desires. Believe me friends then your realisation will sprout. You will clearly understand that what you want to do with your life energies. I am sure your every step will be towards your ultimate liberation. You will find that the divine is just within you and you were just freaking put wasting your time. So please observe your breathe very keenly.​

Just Breath

Ducks Quack, Eagles soar

Brilliant article, just couldn’t resist sharing from HBC Lagos
Ducks Quack, Eagles Soar

I was waiting in line for a ride at the airport in Dubai. When a cab pulled up, the first thing I noticed was that the taxi was polished to a bright shine. Smartly dressed in a white shirt, black tie, and freshly pressed black slacks, the cab driver jumped out and rounded the car to open the back passenger door for me.
He handed me a laminated card and said: ‘I’m Abdul, your driver. While I’m loading your bags in the trunk I’d like you to read my mission statement.’
Taken aback, I read the card. It said: Abdul’s Mission Statement:

To get my customers to their destination in the quickest, safest and cheapest way possible in a friendly environment.
This blew me away. Especially when I noticed that the inside of the cab matched the outside. Spotlessly clean!
As he slid behind the wheel, Abdul said, ‘Would you like a cup of coffee? I have a thermos of regular and one of decaf.’
I said jokingly, ‘No, I’d prefer a soft drink.’
Abdul smiled and said, ‘No problem. I have a cooler up front with regular and Diet Coke, lassi, water and orange juice.’
Almost stuttering, I said, ‘I’ll take a Lassi.’
Handing me my drink, Abdul said, ‘If you’d like something to read, I have The NST , Star and Sun Today.’
As they were pulling away, Abdul handed me another laminated card, ‘These are the stations I get and the music they play, if you’d like to listen to the radio.’
And as if that weren’t enough, Abdul told me that he had the air conditioning on and asked if the temperature was comfortable for me.
Then he advised me of the best route to my destination for that time of day. He also let me know that he’d be happy to chat and tell me about some of the sights or, if I preferred, to leave me with my own thoughts.
‘Tell me, Abdul ,’ I was amazed and asked him, ‘have you always served customers like this?’
Abdul smiled into the rear view mirror. “No, not always. In fact, it’s only been in the last two years. My first five years driving, I spent most of my time complaining like all the rest of the cabbies do. Then I heard about POWER OF CHOICE one day.”
Power of choice is that you can be a duck or an eagle.
‘If you get up in the morning expecting to have a bad day, you’ll rarely disappoint yourself. Stop complaining!’
‘Don’t be a duck. Be an eagle. Ducks quack and complain. Eagles soar above the crowd.’
‘That hit me. really hard’ said Abdul.
‘It is about me. I was always quacking and complaining, so I decided to change my attitude and become an eagle. I looked around at the other cabs and their drivers. The cabs were dirty, the drivers were unfriendly, and the customers were unhappy. So I decided to make some changes, slowly … a few at a time. When my customers responded well, I did more.’
‘I take it that it has paid off for you,’ I said.
‘It sure has,’ Abdul replied. ‘My first year as an eagle, I doubled my income from the previous year. This year I’ll probably quadruple it. My customers call me for appointments on my cell phone or leave a message on it.’
Abdul made a different choice. He decided to stop quacking like a duck and start soaring like an eagle.
Start becoming an eagle today

one small step every week

next week

And next

A great Thought..
You don’t die if you fall in water, you die only if you don’t swim.”
Thats the Real Meaning of Life.
Improve yourself and your skills in a different way.

Be an eagle, not a Duck.
Lets keep improving.

 Find yourself.


(I found this small excerpt in my dairy. Dated 01 July 2012)
She wanted to be different than others and wanted to take the path less traveled by. She wanted to be a guiding light for others. She also wanted to write books or BE in a bestseller one day. She wanted to teach Yoga in Bali and the list goes on and on…

She had the moon in her eyes which never wane, it was as bright as the sun. Her heart was filled with dreams. Dreams of love, passion, desire, fame, magic and sin. Sometimes she even played the role of Belle from ‘Beauty and The Beast’, in her dreams!

She wanted to travel the whole world and make her life full of adventure and thrills, meet new people and make new friends. She was an adventure junkie who walked and fell, walked and fell several times and then discovered herself laughing on her scars till her eyes filled with water. Now she loves her scars for it’s a proof that she lived. She didn’t die before her death.’ This thought made her smile.

One day she found that whatever she was looking for was already present in her soul.

She is a free soal; happy and confused, lonely and happy, miserable and rich. But you know what her pains and sorrows made her a poet and a songwriter. An amazing one indeed. Her postcard says, “Accept what life offers to you. Life is beautiful when you turn your trouble into triumphs.”

She is an introvert who writes poems and songs while sitting alone in forts and palaces. Whenever she is short of words she turns to strings and keys as it is the only way to express herself. But, but she is still Unknown. She has big roles to play but she is living in a small town. Her talent barely win any recognition. She cries and cries in her blanket tears hot and cold.

She hears voices. Voices guiding her and sometimes helping her to guide others. She has fountain of ideas and stories inside her and that made her write articles with Krishna’s feather. She writes in her diary every night because she wants to live Forever and was glad to know that she will leave a mark on the planet.

She just wants to Create. Create music, art and magic. She finds ideas when she has baths in hot water in golden lights. Her heart blossoms like red roses and now she smiles everyday. Whenever she smiles she is in wonderland.

Do you know who is she?